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RedGinger
45 Manado, Sulawesi Utara, Indonesia
Seeking: Male 40 - 55
Hi. Thank you for taking time to read my profile. Yes, Red Ginger is not my real name. It is my screen name. I pick it up from one of my favorite herbs =) Imagine a cold rainy day and someone serves you a cup of hot red ginger tea, or a bowl of hot soup with some red ginger. Warm and cozy, you feel energized yet relaxed at the same time. Or maybe it is very hot in your place. You just finished some workouts and the air-con is not working. The only thing you need is to cool down. Out of the blue, someone hands you an ice red ginger alle. Yumm, what a treat. You feel suddenly refreshed and ready for the next challenge. That is what I hope for our conversation. Everyone can be stressed out with all the workloads and things that we faced each day. But some words from a good friend, can lighten our burden and helps us to walk further. I hope we can be good friends, encourage each other with some good words, exchanging ideas and enrich our perspectives from our different and unique backgrounds. Well, maybe you think of finding the right woman to become your lifelong partner. You are so focused that you forget that every solid relationship is like a healthy plant that needs sunshine, water, and of course enough time to grow. So, why not taking time to make a good friendship? If you are really serious of making connection, start thinking of something interesting we can talk about. If you can't even find one interesting topic now, don't you think you will have serious problem making good daily conversation with your future partner? Train yourself now. You have nothing to lose =) If you have little to say in your profile, please be brave enough to make an honest introduction about yourself when you chat me, so I know that I am talking with a real and reliable man, not a fake person or a scammer. A good friend (or at least a potentially good friend) will accept you the way you are and at the same time when they know you well enough, they will dare to challenge you to be a better person. They cannot accept you or challenge you if you are not honest, can they? Remember that the person you connect with here is not an isolated person. They should have some friends and community, right? At least if they were considered normal in their society (and I don't think you would be happy to date an abnormal lady, or live with her for the rest of your life). So, think about this. When you make a good friend, you can either have your very best friend as your lifelong partner (isn't wonderful?) ... ...or, you'll have a good chance to be introduced to her other single friends (and usually a high quality people will be connected to other high quality people, don't you think so?) Well, that's all for a start. I hope to expand my friendship globally, and maybe you will be one of them. To what extent? Only time will tell. Until then, let's have some meaningful conversations. Just a closing note. If I don't reply to your message, maybe you don't read this profile or too lazy to think on how to cultivate a good and solid relationship with anyone, including your potential future partner. Just move on. Don't waste your time. Or maybe you have crafted some good conversation starter, but receive no reply. Maybe you just need to upgrade your membership =) Have a great day! Looking forward to be your very best friend =)
Yenny
45 Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking: Male 47 - 75
Single (never married), no kids, zero baggage & no past story with ex 😁 Btw all of my photos were shot in 2023, last year. I'll be 46 yrs old this Dec 2024. Luckily my physical look still not much changes within 2 decades. When I's 42 yrs old, I still could fit in wearing XS (= extra small) cloths. People used to mistaught if I's 10-15 yrs younger than my real age I'm very independent, educated, multitasking, empathetic, caring, respectful, good attitude, handy, self driven, problem solver, genuine, supportive, hard worker, adaptable, positive growth mindset, introvert, typically a girl next door. A real sigma female person who love peace & nature I'm more agnostics rather than been raised from Moslem family. I do believe in God & karma but didn't want to be classified into a specific religion. Why I can't accept Indonesian men who always think that Moslem is the best religion among others & think others religions' false. For me religion/belief's very personal & everyone has human right to choose the fittest one for themself & noone can't force their belief to others even to their kids nor parents Love animals, game, nature, peaceful place/environment, exercise, dancing, cooking, coffee lover, solo traveller, enthusiastic to learn different & new things As I adores my former dad, I prefer to like elder man with big age gap difference. I like matured man & easily adapt to Western culture who doesn't fanatic to a religion & respect to individual private life One man one woman type I'm looking for soulmate, best friend, fatherly type, lover, husband, everlasting partner, my other half One of my dream is living in foreign (developed) countries one day. Living happily with my future husband. Amen 🙏

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