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Nat
Standard Member
Verified
44
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Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 38 - 55
Willing to lie about how we met
I like to be realistic and practical, but I am ironically romantic, loving and funny. Like water and oil in the same bottle. I believe that love alone is not enough. Love is a choice. A decision.There are no butterflies in the stomach forever. But there is loyalty, commitment and respect. If things get serious, let's do a video call.
Nur
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43
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Tanjung Pandan, Bangka Belitung, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 39 - 52
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I am an independent woman who has a stubborn and opinionated nature high ego, I already have fears in marriage which makes me have a character like this. If you just want to have fun you are wrong I want to have a serious relationship, I am not an e
Lina
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43
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Surabaya, Jawa Timur, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 40 - 49
Please read my profile before you send me message
Hello everyone! Welcome to my profie! 😊😊How are you today? I hope you are fine. Thanks a lot for stopping by. I am not going to describe myself here because I think the 1st thing people will see is the appearance, eventhough the personality is the most important thing. I met someone from dating app, he has a good apperance and write so many good things about his personality on that site, but when we had conversation, he is totally the opposite😂😂 So, I am not going to write anything about me because I think you will get to know someone better if you want to spend time to talk to them, and I would love to spend time to do this if you are interested and if you are someone that I am looking for.
Luna
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40
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Denpasar, Bali, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 36 - 54
Searching for the right one.
I am not hard to love I am just difficult to be manipulated. Introvert, passionate, cheerfull, never give up. Hard worker, I run my own small bussiness, financially independent, self isolate when I am overwhelmed. I love cooking so much, will spoil you with delicious dinner. 😊
Irina
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42
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Bekasi, Jawa Barat, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 40 - 45
Wish I meet someone who match with me
I can be independent women but I'm typically traditional woman, not a feminist, family-oriented, emphatic, romantic, ambivert, open minded, I'm a baker, like cooking, baking, creating DIY, reading book, writing, singing, classical music, watching movies, traveling, my love language are physical touch, word of affirmation, act of service and quality time.
Klara
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49
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Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 45 - 69
Asian cute woman looking for my future husband
Hi Thank you for visit my profile I am living in Jakarta, Indonesia Simple and good sense of humor A Woman as the moon and A man as the sun here.. Before you write me message pls read my profile: Looking for partner of life who complete and growing each other together for going to the Jannah Not looking for perfection because perfect and best are made together And looking for a place where I feel valued not needed for a moment, then maturity is the main key besides respect and honesty
Lulu
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41
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Bandung, Jawa Barat, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 40 - 55
Looking for someone to have a serious relationship
I'm a caring and loyal woman, hardworking, a laid back woman and easy going... Looking for a serious relationship with the goal to have a family. In my leisure time i like to watch Korean drama or playing games (N. Switch).. I’m a nice woman so if you have the same goal, we could contact to get to know better..
Rina
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46
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Bekasi, Jawa Barat, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 42 - 61
Looking for Someone Special
I lived in the States for 12 years until I finished high school. When I returned to Indonesia, I didn’t know how to speak or write, so I just worked until now. Indonesia doesn't have an emergency medicine major or paramedics, which is the only field that I'm passionate about. I've been working as an English teacher with a Swiss company for many years. I'm a very fair, sincere, and genuine person. Every day, I treat people the way I want to be treated. I'm also a person who tries to put myself in other people's shoes whenever I feel that I have to. I live my life passionately and look for and cherish the better things in life and what’s really important. I don't get mad easily. Half of the pictures were taken in 2023.
Muniroh
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40
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Pekalongan, Jawa Tengah, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 37 - 47
Hi there, I'm Munisuroh, you can call me with my nickname: Union here are some things I like to do when I'm not working: 1. Spending time with my family and relatives excuse them so much to me! Family is everything, right? 😇 2. Taking care of neglected stray cats and I raise them until they grow up. Anyway... I love the paint so much! 🐱🐈⬛🐈 3. Do 5 times prayers every day. Reading the Quran and listening to religious lectures especially when I feel restless. Trust me it works! ❤️ 4. Sometimes I like to garden. I really like orchids because they are hard to take care of, but have beautiful flowers. So, it’s similar to the formula of life, to succeed, we have to keep trying, right? 💪 5. Me time with solo traveling, do you want to accompany me? 😎 6. Music. I like singing and poetry. Sometimes I just mix them together. This is one of them https://cinta1668.wordpress.com/2017/03/15/berlabuh/ 7. I love to learn something new. A new friend, or maybe a new relationship. So... Let’s get to know each other and see what will happen! 👀
SISCA
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49
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Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 43 - 64
Looking for MR. Right, it could be YOU..☺️😁
I AM REAL.. Am open minded, easy going , Loving, caring person with a good sense of humor and am happy being my self😉am romantic and always strive to believe in the good within everyone. I'm straight forward about my needs, and honest when I feel hurt. Am looking for a long term serious relationship then i could spend the rest of my life with. I never judge any peoples only from their cover but the most important is what is in their heart. PS : No photo, No respond Thanks️ Sisca 🥰😉
RedGinger
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45
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Manado, Sulawesi Utara, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 40 - 55
Let's live this God-given life to the fullest!
Hi. Thank you for taking time to read my profile. Yes, Red Ginger is not my real name. It is my screen name. I pick it up from one of my favorite herbs =) Imagine a cold rainy day and someone serves you a cup of hot red ginger tea, or a bowl of hot soup with some red ginger. Warm and cozy, you feel energized yet relaxed at the same time. Or maybe it is very hot in your place. You just finished some workouts and the air-con is not working. The only thing you need is to cool down. Out of the blue, someone hands you an ice red ginger alle. Yumm, what a treat. You feel suddenly refreshed and ready for the next challenge. That is what I hope for our conversation. Everyone can be stressed out with all the workloads and things that we faced each day. But some words from a good friend, can lighten our burden and helps us to walk further. I hope we can be good friends, encourage each other with some good words, exchanging ideas and enrich our perspectives from our different and unique backgrounds. Well, maybe you think of finding the right woman to become your lifelong partner. You are so focused that you forget that every solid relationship is like a healthy plant that needs sunshine, water, and of course enough time to grow. So, why not taking time to make a good friendship? If you are really serious of making connection, start thinking of something interesting we can talk about. If you can't even find one interesting topic now, don't you think you will have serious problem making good daily conversation with your future partner? Train yourself now. You have nothing to lose =) If you have little to say in your profile, please be brave enough to make an honest introduction about yourself when you chat me, so I know that I am talking with a real and reliable man, not a fake person or a scammer. A good friend (or at least a potentially good friend) will accept you the way you are and at the same time when they know you well enough, they will dare to challenge you to be a better person. They cannot accept you or challenge you if you are not honest, can they? Remember that the person you connect with here is not an isolated person. They should have some friends and community, right? At least if they were considered normal in their society (and I don't think you would be happy to date an abnormal lady, or live with her for the rest of your life). So, think about this. When you make a good friend, you can either have your very best friend as your lifelong partner (isn't wonderful?) ... ...or, you'll have a good chance to be introduced to her other single friends (and usually a high quality people will be connected to other high quality people, don't you think so?) Well, that's all for a start. I hope to expand my friendship globally, and maybe you will be one of them. To what extent? Only time will tell. Until then, let's have some meaningful conversations. Just a closing note. If I don't reply to your message, maybe you don't read this profile or too lazy to think on how to cultivate a good and solid relationship with anyone, including your potential future partner. Just move on. Don't waste your time. Or maybe you have crafted some good conversation starter, but receive no reply. Maybe you just need to upgrade your membership =) Have a great day! Looking forward to be your very best friend =)
Selina
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43
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Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 40 - 60
To love or to be loved???
A common lady who just loves travelling when she has a lil free time and dry money.. Would be great if I could find my soulmate here and then we could conquer the world together :) as I still have a long list about places /countries I would love to visit though I have been travelling to quite some places / countries till now...
Gusti
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46
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Medan, Sumatera Utara, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 44 - 45
Hello...is it me you're looking for?
I a single mum with a wissful daughter. IM kind a money house, real family oriented, I like walking, go to the movies,read a book. I may not be an xy woman with the hot body. I am just ordinary woman. I like notching impossible in God. No games,no faze,no scam, I believe love will find a way. And if God lead you to me..he will bring you to me. We all are looking for trouble in life not looking for trouble or problem.
Yenny
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Verified
45
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Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 47 - 75
Looking for my other half
Single (never married), no kids, zero baggage & no past story with ex 😁 Btw all of my photos were shot in 2023, last year. I'll be 46 yrs old this Dec 2024. Luckily my physical look still not much changes within 2 decades. When I's 42 yrs old, I still could fit in wearing XS (= extra small) cloths. People used to mistaught if I's 10-15 yrs younger than my real age I'm very independent, educated, multitasking, empathetic, caring, respectful, good attitude, handy, self driven, problem solver, genuine, supportive, hard worker, adaptable, positive growth mindset, introvert, typically a girl next door. A real sigma female person who love peace & nature I'm more agnostics rather than been raised from Moslem family. I do believe in God & karma but didn't want to be classified into a specific religion. Why I can't accept Indonesian men who always think that Moslem is the best religion among others & think others religions' false. For me religion/belief's very personal & everyone has human right to choose the fittest one for themself & noone can't force their belief to others even to their kids nor parents Love animals, game, nature, peaceful place/environment, exercise, dancing, cooking, coffee lover, solo traveller, enthusiastic to learn different & new things As I adores my former dad, I prefer to like elder man with big age gap difference. I like matured man & easily adapt to Western culture who doesn't fanatic to a religion & respect to individual private life One man one woman type I'm looking for soulmate, best friend, fatherly type, lover, husband, everlasting partner, my other half One of my dream is living in foreign (developed) countries one day. Living happily with my future husband. Amen 🙏
christieangelic_
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44
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Bekasi, Jawa Barat, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 38 - 50
CAUCASIAN ONLY AND NON SMOKER😊
Hello my name is Christina. I am educated, loyal, patient and caring person. I love kids, love to laugh, love sports, love gardening and love cooking too. In my free time, i'd like to go to the cinema, reading a novel, go to the gym, hang out and eating healthy food with family and friends. Iam family oriented person. For You Guys Info: Iam real or genuine. NEVER MARRIED AND HAVE NO KIDS.
gabriela
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44
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Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 40 - 55
SERIOUS ONLY, LET'S MAKE A NICE HOME AND FAMILY🤗
*PLEASE READ TIL THE END* I am sorry, I only read and can't reply all the messages nor email you have sent me. I am looking for partner in life, someone that I can take good care my partner, make a family and nice home with him (and children we have before). I have my mom and son 11 years old who stay with me and I must with them. If you are serious and accept my mom as your parent and my boy like your son, then I guaranteed with what I said earlier. If you have parents and you as a good son want to take care of them, i don't mind either, because i believe, if we take care our parents then blessing will overflow. If you love God, family man, responsible and honest man you may write to me. I hope we can continue from friendship to relationship. I live in Jakarta and I'm Chinese-Indonesian and natural look. Indonesia is one of beautiful country in the world. *DROP ME YOUR NUMBER IF WE BOTH LUCKY I'll contact you. Thank you for understanding. God Bless You.
Moniq
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44
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Kuta, Bali, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 40 - 58
Be kind, Be trust
I've just meet someone misterius here. He was an excellent actor to make a drama. Too bad I recognized the way that he was a cheater. I stopped returning his emails. I have an excellent analytical skills. I really appreciate anyone. But please don't cheat because my trust will be lost on you soon. Btw I am prefer to the Christian man. Thank you for reading my profile. God bless you.
Eliawati
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40
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Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 36 - 42
I am a single mum widow with 3 children who are with me only 2. here I am looking for a man who has been serious for a life partner and to be a father of my children because they have said they could have been needed a Father's love from birth only domain for us for presence and try again after I have had range of tears, so much more than 2 operations now I can hear anymore so is a singe man without a physical view
Flow
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43
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Denpasar, Bali, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 39 - 57
Time flew fast see if we match.Love be who Iam.
I work as teacher i love around children.Iam looking to make new connections,Im considered a nice and personable women by most people I know(but I do hang out with easily) Iam a romantic person,responsibility, passionate,faithful,loyal,very affectionate,watching a good movie with someone I love,I always treat people with respect unless they prove to me that they don't deserve it.I am a strong & mature woman.I like to cook, listen to music,I love to travel,see different places,people,foods I work hard and always try to do my best,My dream is to find a man I can love & make happy,to live in a nice house,change my work to something with less hours so I can spend time with my man,we have the time to enjoy life together whether it be friendship,fun or dating. humours,cheeky,fun to be around.I have great morals and values & wont settle for less then I deserve.My mates say Iam honest,kind hearted & a big softi.I try to see the glass half full and prefer to hang with people who have a positive outlook in life.So not into the drama of community hook ups.it's hard to find diamonds between gravel.be your self.
Tunis
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48
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Bogor, Jawa Barat, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 30 - 50
Tetap tersenyum dan Sabar
I am a humoristic woman, holding a principle, happy time in happy, friendly, ate and cook, glad traveling, happy to read, always smiling, kind, most-merciful, grumpy when a pinch of sharp, etc just a good point.
Saskia
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Verified
42
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Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 42 - 52
😊
Hi, you may call me Saki. I enjoy being solitude doing my hobbies and also i am happy and want being around many people or new people. I enjoy live alone but maybe i want a person or a very good friend that we could sincerely count on each other.
Noona
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44
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Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 48 - 58
Read my profile first before sending me message!
I am looking for a serious relationship that leads to marriage, and I am not a fake person. I’m not here to play around or play hearts, because I don’t want to waste my time or waste yours. So if you just want to play hearts, ask for money or look for s*x or a scammer, just skip my profile. And don’t ask or send WhatsApp number if it’s just for ghosting purposes, better chat with each other first on this app if you already connected then move on to another messaging app. Thank you 🙏 I am not interested in men from Asia, Nigeria, India, Turkey and the middle eastern countries (not meaning to be racist) and if your profile is blank and there are no photos, please do not send a message as I will not respond. And I am also not interested in men under 45, so sorry your message will not be replied.
Cury
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Verified
44
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Manado, Sulawesi Utara, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 43 - 55
Hello 😊
Hello 😊 I'm Real ❤️ I'm a Shy Woman, have a Sensitive Feeling but Loving.. 🥰🥰 I am an honest person, I hate lies, I always speak the truth and I do not pretend to seek a man's attention. If you want to have a serious relationship with me, believe what I say because that is what really happens.
Dewa
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49
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Surabaya, Jawa Timur, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 48 - 61
I'm looking for serious
I am 49 years old, this October 50. All these photos I took in December-February 2024 in Bali. That's the test. Finding many similarities is impossible. Differences are an art in life, to be able to complement each other. I can be a listener and make you calm. I am looking for someone who wants to commit to a serious relationship, good, open, calm, can be a friend, best friend, the greatest lover for me and a husband who grows old together. I was born in Bali, until school age, then moved and lived in Surabaya, like nature, and simple. I hope I am not too sexy, ordinary but I have a beautiful heart. If you accept me as I am, with very limited English. Simple conversation, and I want to learn more. If you can prove it with a video call I respect you
Angel
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45
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Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 45 - 54
Are you the one?
Simple, family oriented, love cooking, love foods, coffee and tea, what else do you want to know, just feel to ask me! I'm not a party person, and i'm not here for fun. I'm serious looking for a long term relationship. If you have no picture on your profile, please don't contact me. Thank you. P. S If you are looking for video sex or naked pictures, don't waste your time with me, please stay away!!
Evie
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42
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Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 38 - 60
I'm looking for serious relationship for marriage
I'm a single mom with 2 son , I like cooking ,watching, travel, sometime also I like go hiking and I love my Family. I'm Looking a good man for serious relationship with a future to be marriage , so if you just scammer or want to playing and spend time only, please don't text me and wise my time. I'm not come from rich family but I'm not looking man only for taking money from him, because I used to being independent , but still I don't like lazy man and I don't like man who look at down to woman
Ria
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40
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Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 40 - 70
I'm single moms from indonesia stay in jakarta city with my parents now, I have 1 daughter, divorce 4 years ago n I need honest man not fake man or fake account too, care n responsible man, always keep trust, loyal n love, I'm the best for my daughter and my life. I need happiness with my litlle daughter, love important but care more important, looking for seriously in a relationship not just for fun or having fun coz I'm a mosquito. Are you ready to get married with me soon? Don't like naughty Man
ina
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48
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Denpasar, Bali, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 40 - 50
Greeting 🙏
Thank you for Read my profil.My name ina I'm 48 years old, I am a muslim .single devorse since 17 years. born and raise with tradisional family bigroun in City of Banyuwangi-Jawa island. Since 97' I decided to moved and living in Bali and Creating m
LaviiiyyyEvi
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46
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Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 43 - 53
Hi good people.Nice to see u.Welcome to my profile
I am Indonesian, friendly, open minded, fun, caring, loving, loyal, creative, smart and educated woman. For me, in life we have to be more creative. To create something with ideas. Something usefull for us, and/or other. Not by harming your self or others. Have a great day 😊
wiwid
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47
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Kupang, Nusa Tenggara Timur, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 41 - 59
Life too short,stay positive,enjoy and be happy
Thank you for reading my profile, I was born into a Christian family, but I am spiritual, not religious. Fashion, reading, listening to music (I like all kinds of music), dancing, sports, yoga, cooking, pet lover, enjoying the outdoors, or going to the beach. It’s all part of my activities, apart from me working on running my small business. In March 2024 I have extended my American visa. I’m here looking for a man who is qualified and educated, who treats his mother well, likes humor, likes music and dancing is a plus for me. Is that you?
Lindsay
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41
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Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 48 - 55
Serious Only & Christian Faith! Never too late 2...
I'm 49 of age actually, I try to change but can't here. Christian and Family oriented, shy at first and warm after that knowing the person. Still energetic, love sports, love to cook. Please have a look to my profile then try to text me to start conversation. Thank you have spend your time read my profile.
Nancy Hastuti
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47
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Kediri, Jawa Timur, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 40 - 60
charming and irresistible
A settled down woman that able to live alone but choose not to. I am a positive thinking person and taking good care and spoil my self very good. I do believe before spreading love to others we should able to love our self first. I love nature and thrilled by the green, sunrise, rain, and the smell of wet soil.
bulan
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Verified
47
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Makassar, Sulawesi Selatan, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 41 - 57
Hi, Nice to meet you.
My name is moon, healthy, free, happy carting, I am a hard worker, honest, loyal and appreciation, I also like to cook, and like to exercise in my spare time, I like using esge loquiloso in church. like the slvl of coffee makes me, really, travel to relax in. like. Love the beach breeze and the color of the sky at sunset's very beautiful...
Angelina
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47
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Bandung, Jawa Barat, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 42 - 60
Hello... PLEASE READ FIRST!!!
I’m Indonesian born Chinese and my religion is Catholic. I’m an honest, open and classy fashion city girl :) I love fashion, luxuries goods, movies, good food/culinary, photography, beach. Please read my profile first before you message me! If you’re not included my criteria, don’t waste your time to message me. I don’t pay for this site so if you don’t, I couldn’t read or reply your message either. If your profile without any photos do not expect me to read or reply. Scammers please go away! Respect and manner please!
Francis
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44
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Denpasar, Bali, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 37 - 55
Hiii there,, how are you ?
if you want to know something feel free to ask. I have nothing to hide. I think honesty is based on everything, and i am expect the same from my partner, love cooking, love beach, love movie, I am not barbie and not model, but in every situation in you’re life i will be with you, humoris, straight to the point woman :))
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