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Desi
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48
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Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 49 - 67
live in jakarta , God always been so much generous to me all my life ,i couldn't ask for more except gratefull They said i am stable ,kind,lovely ,passionate I am artistic, patient untill things can not be tolerate I am easy to laugh, love to travelling ,easy to talk and very feminim lady i try to find my spouse that have a loyal attitude i like to know each other before proceed it And i like the man to be initiative and make plans if he interested on me.I am open and willing to give all info honestly. If we match and he fullfil my standards and i fullfill his standard than its Allah will. please serious man only...
Nata
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44
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Surabaya, Jawa Timur, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 45 - 60
Patience is not waiting until it´s ready!
At this point in my life, i don´t sweat how society measures happiness. I am my own person. I´m not always optimistic, but i learn, give myself permission to make mistakes, and am so grateful to be able to rise up again. I embrace the moment anywhere I´m at. I respect and wish for something real and come with good intentions. I think i am so much more, we have to discover together when we get to know each other.
Meg
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45
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Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 45 - 60
Only SERIOUS ONE,contact me in my profile 🙏
Contact whats +matpttw1t1tgt by dial tones, you can search my number .good luck! I am Humble,Loving, caring, honest ,a cheerful woman, passionate, loyal. Text me telegram @megmey78 and you will know my personality. i wish i meet someone to spend th
Eunike
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41
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Surabaya, Jawa Timur, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 39 - 50
A younger looking INTJ woman
I am laid back sometimes, but most of the time I know what I want and try to get it. My friends say I am smart, driven, ambitious, yet nice to talk with, funny, sweet, and thoughtful. Well, in short, I am an INTJ and definitely not just the common Asian girl type. =) I am a bit over-sized for Asian. LOL.. I am tall (fortunately slim enough, hehe), got hard times in finding clothes and shoes, but I still dress well.. I have very soft and straight black hair, medium layered cut so I don't need to spend to much time on it =) I love movies, books, food (my girl friends and I used to go out trying new restaurants nearly every Saturday after church.. hehe), and of course traveling! oh, and music. I play piano, but not that good =) I'd really love to be with someone with whom we can make music together.. it would be a great bonus.. hehe Right now, I work as a freelance translator (movie subtitles) and also occasionally as a tour leader. I'm stress-free, at least not from work. One more, I love Jesus, my Lord and Savior, and I want a Godly relationship. I have had my share of failures because of some ignorance, and I really really really don't wanna go through that kind of relationship anymore. :) I guess, if I have to choose what kind of life I wanna lead, I'd say "a life that pleases God".
Noname
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49
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Denpasar, Bali, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 50 - 65
Age 50-65 only n do read my profile please!!
I admit that I often miss that great feeling of having someone by myside. However, I'm not desperate. I know my worth. I'd definitely much prefer being single but happy than taken but miserable. I'm always the sole breadwinner in the family. I've been working hard all my life. Not a gold digger or convenient wife material but sure I'm more than pleased to be pampered n spoiled by my beloved man. I presently live n work in Indonesia but I'm most ready to join my future soulmate anywhere on this planet. I'm a woman not a girl. You can't move me just by sending me a million likes, making me a favorite or saying I'm beautiful 27 times a day. I only count meaningful actions n real deals, if you know what I mean. and mind you, I don't give a second chance so try not to ruin my trust n respect. CONTACTING ME WITHOUT READING MY PROFILE = DISRESPECTFUL. I WONT REPLY TO YOU N WILL BLOCK YOU RIGHT AWAY.
Suni
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42
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Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 38 - 55
Impressed me with your intellectual, not your D*ck
Single mom with the heart of an angel (that's what my friend said). I hate scammers. I won't ask money from u and I won't send out money for u. I also don't like s*x chat or sending out nude pics. I am straight forward person. For me trust must be ea
Yuni
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40
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Bandung, Jawa Barat, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 35 - 47
Allah knows the best
Living balance for my Duniyah and hereafter, I'm just common Muslim learning to be a better one every day. Dating is never in my life dictionary, I only do ta'aruf leading to marriage. I believe when marriage because of Allah SWT, InsyaAllah everything will run easier. I'm never married but my previous ta'aruf experiences have taught me much in choosing my future husband. Allah is the best planner :)
vien
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41
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Malang, Jawa Timur, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 35 - 45
Just follow where the destiny will lead,,,,
Im kinda prefer outdoor activity but hate when its too much crowd cause national holiday, just hate when everywhere i see is crowd but there is public place I 'd love to visit even the crowd going crazy, its library ! no matter how crowd there..library will stay quite n peace?! *_* Im easy 2 remember few things unconciously or not,,,so i might be very helpfull when travelling as a living compass,,,*_* Fyi : only for GUYS whos sent ur 'heart' a.ka interesting to me,,since i dun feel comfy with the emo,,if u're paid member n interested u back, just check ur message or i may add u as my fav.thanks!! is very much,,*_^
Linda
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41
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Kuta, Bali, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 40 - 60
Make your life better than anything
A simple women of God n nothing special on me n sorry I can’t open your text Here ,and I think if you want to judge that person,what’s wrong if we try first and get to know each other than we know what the nature and character of that person is,!and
Lovely
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43
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Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 30 - 50
Good Woman Looking For Marriage
Hello Gentlemen,I'm looking for Serious Relationship that leads to Marriage but i know two people must get to know each other first before they decide to be together,i'm Very Pretty in Person with Nice Figure and Good Heart,Beautiful Black long Hair,Educated,i Speaks and Write english well enough so there will be no problem in communicating with me et je parle francais aussi mais un peu Merci,i also have Great Personality,Well dressed and Very Fun to be with... I will tell you more about my self later so if you think that i'm the one pls do not hesitate to contact me and lets get to know each other and One Thing for Sure that I'm REAL ( you can meet me on Cam ) and I'm No Drama Queen!! Anyway I'm not a full member so i cant read standard message,pls make sure that you are a full member so i can read your message thank you... ( I have been to Europe and Just recently came back from United States for Holiday with my Family ) I'm Not Perfect But I'm LIMITED EDITION
Kirana
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41
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Bandung, Jawa Barat, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 41 - 50
Sorry Not For Playing Games
I'm not good in describe my self, but one thing for sure, i really do want to find someone to share my life with.. someone honest, faithfull, caring and loving. I hate cheated.. and thats why i got divorced, enough to make me feel like trauma. So i dont want to play game, i dont have time for that, life is too short.. so, yeah this is me.. No Cheat and No Playing games. thanks.
Joy
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46
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Bandung, Jawa Barat, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 43 - 59
Hi there.
Hello. Joy here. I am a lover of life and have worked with children and teenagers for years. My work sometimes makes me feel like walking on eggshells but surely it's the best anti-aging ever :-). In my pastime I enjoy music, gardening, the scent of forest or camping if time permits. I like a cup of coffee or tea to start a day while hearing birds chirping but I would be happier if my special someone would like to join me :-)
HAPSARI
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43
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Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 42 - 58
Let's be lucky!
I'm well known as a caring, funny, loving person. I can enjoy both doing outdoors and indoors activities, seeing new people, making jokes, staying home all day doing things, or talking seriously or about crazy things in a good way. Family always comes first because no matter what we will always come to them.
Selvia
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41
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Surabaya, Jawa Timur, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 39 - 60
I'm easy going person
i'm a widowed 2 years ago. i'm 40 years old. independent woman. Coming from one of the countries in Asia namely Indonesia you eight three this one eight stand is pretty cool but at the moment our society is still not as advanced Europe, Canada or the western United States.
Lil
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43
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Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 35 - 53
Hello
Hi I am Lily. I am here for a friends but could be for relationship. I like traveling , sadly not able to go now because i have a fulltime work. Write me a message if u want to know more. Oh and I dont know how to replace or add photos. Trying many times and always failed.
Ingrid
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47
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Denpasar, Bali, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 45 - 55
Looking for one man woman
As an Asian ( Chinese Indonesian ), I feel blessed to have a younger look. I'm nice, caring, kind, loyal, intelligent, sincere, genuine, empath and intuitive. I don't like small talk, I always like to have a deep conversation, to know people character, I like to talk about spirituality even still have limited knowledge about it. I like to read people profile to know how they're really are before send them a like. I'm here to have a pure intention not to trick you, not to play games, not to hurt you, not to waste your time. So I also expect to be treated the same. I know that everyone here has their intention, everyone can choose whom they want to be with, and everyone has so many options. I may not be everyone's cup of tea but I'm not for everyone and I'm not an option. I respect a man with morals, value and integrity as I also have it. I value kindness and empathy above all. And I'm a karma believer, I treat people the way I want to be treated. I feel sorry for everyone here both men and women who have a pure intentions to meet someone, but instead of meeting nice people, they got scammed or lied to by some people. I don't understand why people are so mean to other people that they have never even met at all.
LL
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49
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Surabaya, Jawa Timur, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 45 - 55
Looking for a serious one, My heart isn't a hotel ...
I'm a Chinese born in Indonesia. Not interested in chatting with men under 35, so please don't waste your time and mine. Yes, that's my real age I'm looking for a serious relationship which hopefully lead to a marriage....not for playing ga
Rin
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40
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Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 30 - 45
Hi, nice to meet you
Im bored to live alone. I think i need to update and more specific. I like to travel, i've been travelled to 15 countries alone so far. Mostly asia, europe just 5 countries. I learnt Deutsch until A2 only. Ive been in Munich. But seems pretty hard to get a job or study to access there since they expecting C+ ability. :( ok, thats my dream that i have to bury. Anyway i dont like to give a list of personalities expectation,nobody's perfect. But very stingy and lie about ur age(big gap), i can't stand of it. Im independent, stable, not money oriented, not rich, also not poor. So the man should be equal, at least, if its higher im lucky. i know one day i'll find the click one,right one outhere. Note: if u age 50 plus, please swipe left me. Im not interested
Shyntia
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47
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Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 45 - 65
Still looking for serious one ☺
I'm divorced, mother of 13 years old girl. She's a very well mannered and kind girl. Back on this site, looking for serious relationship leads to marriage. I'm always shy at first, so drop me a message if you're interested. But i don't reply profile without picture or if I'm not interested (no offense, i don't mean to be rude). It will safe both of our time. PS. I've lived overseas so i don't mind moving to another country to be with someone i love (so i hope this answered your question 🙂)
Ilda
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43
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Bekasi, Jawa Barat, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 39 - 57
Hiya!
Oh I don't know. Sometimes people find me quite funny. I love to laugh. Self deprecating humour is my middle name. Sometimes I overshare things, even though I always said "I'm an introvert". Sometimes I wish I live in the wizarding world. Is this enough for an introduction? You can ask me anything you want. Let's talk!
Ester
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42
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Sleman, Yogyakarta, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 36 - 54
Hi
Hello I'm Ester Dreaming of and Wishing for someone on my side, hold my hand when we walk. Sharing life together, enjoying life together and taking care of each other. I like cooking, walking on the beach, nature. No games, lies and fake people. I am here to meet a real man for serious relationship
Enry
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46
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Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 45 - 60
When you stop looking for love.. it'll find you
I'm a coffee addict..let's have some coffee ☕ I read a lot ! I even read your profiles This is like Win or lose, lots of selection, some cheap and cute but wont last and some great quality but everything is mixed in, you have to look through almost all of it to find the right fit!! I'm attracted to personalities over faces , its definitely alot harder to figure out on this.. I like simple things in life, free drama and always up front and curious for something that interesting.. I live by the fact that life is way too short so sometimes I plan for the future but enjoy as much what and when I can today! Looking for my person, to share this fabulous life with. I have three children... I love spending time with my family and friends, singing, listening to music and designing clothes.. Equally happy on spending a cozy day/night at home. Particular skills: sense of humour, optimism and spoiling the ones I love...but sometimes i'm a little introvert..i sometimes loves spend my time alone too sitting on a coffeshop,have 1 or 2 cups of coffee, put my earphones, play the music and read books.. I'm not a great cook but always willing to try to make something,got criticized mostly by my kids but they still finish whatever I cook...lol... Aber trotzdem, ich suche den Menschen - der mich durchschaut
Queen Zi
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49
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Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 44 - 61
Hi, I'm a Queen of music 😍❤️
I love to play many music instruments, traveling, and enjoy my time with the one I love. I'm here looking for A Real Lovely & Mature Man to love me and be My beloved, serious for marriage. Just upgrade your account as a member here if you want to chat with me 😍😍
Cananga
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40
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Kuta, Bali, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 32 - 49
Big NO for below 27 years old or up 50 years,
simple n great, with big heart, life is about learning. Hi... I’m looking for serious relationship. I consider myself a loyal woman,I like surprising things in this world, I like to travel, knowing the wonders of the world is my day to day, I am a woman who likes to learn about everything, My name is Cananga and it is a pleasure to be here. less
Melody
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47
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Denpasar, Bali, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 45 - 85
Looking for life partner, my one love ❤❤❤
IM looking for life partner, good companion, soulmate.I love, caring, kind heart, respectful, honest, faithful, loyal, fit, energetic, humorous, funny, funny, funny, down to earth, fun to be with, active, adventurous to the nature. I like to do outdoors Cycling, hiking, rafting, kayaking, camping, trekking, walking, fishing, Dancing, singing, music, beaches, waterfalls, Rivers, Mountains, forests, cooking too.
Icha
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41
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Medan, Sumatera Utara, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 38 - 55
hold my hand make me your true love.💙💙
I'm a friendly woman, likes to joke, has a soft heart, is considerate, affectionate, and cares for the people around me. I am very tolerant of cultural differences and tolerant of differences in beliefs or religions. And the most important thing i
Eci
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45
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Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 40 - 58
Serious Relationship with future life and married.
IAM a good warm heart women, honest, and not play a game or just for fun. i like cooking, sometimes doing zumba dance, hanging out with my sons like as dinner sometimes. IAM also family woman, like as stay home watching TV, cook some food, clean up room and house, deep talk with sons and future husband. Traveling really like it for make sure the world still alive, lol. i like and love laugh, like sharing anything about topics. if you read my profile and like it, you can message me and we can know each other. 😊
Liz
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46
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Surabaya, Jawa Timur, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 42 - 55
Looking for a genuine soulmate
Hi... I'm an ordinary woman who likes to learn and try something new. I have passion about adventure and seeing aurora with special someone someday. I'm fond of going beyond monotonous ordinary life to experience truly extraordinary one. I consider myself highly value fidelity, honesty, openness and respect. I would love to meet someone who shares these values. Hope to find a soulmate to live a life that is full of lots of ups and downs, through the good and bad situations that life presents us, with whom I feel secure and comfortable to express my feelings, whose shoulder I can borrow to lean on when I'm at the lowest point in life. I seek a man with humanity, compassion and empathy towards others in need, though has higher education but humble. Someone with whom I can grow become better at being human. A right companion where we can support each other to grow together. PS : I do not do "have sex outside of marriage" as many people do. I believe a nice honored man will surely be able to accept it. Some stories unfold how the relationship began to turn for the worse after having sexual activity. The relationship often ends after only one such activity, or sometimes slowly grinds on with continuing damage to each party. Sex represents more than an activity. It communicates to our spirits that we are valued, accepted, and we have found our 'soul mate'. While the activity is certainly exciting, it is only temporal and does not bring the 'truth' and completeness that our spirits thought it would. These mixed signals (especially if repeated) to our spirits is damaging to the emotions and minds. I feel that what is different is what attracts us, because we do not necessarily have to have the same tastes to say that we have fitted in, don't you think? Generally, the difficult things are the ones that leave us the best rewards. Or do you know something easy that is worth it... In short, I'm seeking someone who has same spirit and shares the same values and my passion of life. We can start building a relationship and good connection based on our common shared. Then let's see where they would lead us. It might be something more meaningful.
vivi
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45
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Sukabumi, Jawa Barat, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 40 - 58
kejujuran dan bertanggung jawab
Simple, hard-working people love to travel, cook and exercise, don’t like love-doting scammers, money-con artists in the name of love, don’t call or vote me if not serious, I just want to live a quiet life at my age with my companion in any country
Yeni
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49
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Malang, Jawa Timur, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 47 - 65
Only Serious relationship 😊
My photos are recent. The latest one is in 11th April 2024 (my photo with my sister's dog) I'm Christian, spiritual, love God and it's important for me 😊 For non Christian I'm sorry I'm not racist. but I want my husband to be could lead me to
tasya
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41
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Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 33 - 42
I believe in relationships that start with good communication, my goal here is to find a life partner that suits me, who is kind and loyal who respects me, who is royal, humorous, romantic and responsible, I can't accept my sons and I have loved my two sons. i do not accept free s-x, also sex before marriage, I am also not a smoker and drinker. i have 6 cats because I like cats, and I have jewelry making activities that I always do in between my daily activities, I like beautiful things, flowers, atmosphere and places, I can also cook a variety of Asian, western, middle eastern dishes, and I love to cook as well as good food, okay I think to explain here is too long, if there’s something you want to know you can just ask.
Wendy
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47
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Kudus, Jawa Tengah, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 45 - 56
An authentic lady
I love singing and interesting to learn traditional dancing. I am self development books' lover. I am also active in community activity in solid waste management. I believe that we are valuable in God's eyes & He has given us life, so I want to repay His love with all the goodness within my ability.
Putri
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45
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Bekasi, Jawa Barat, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 47 - 70
no scammers allow to text me
I'm an independent woman with family values, I'm a working single mum with 3 amazing kids, and on my free times I prefer spending it with my kids with traveling, cooking, accompany them in their activities. I don't like scammers at all.so if you are a scammer no need to text me, I block it! but I do like chocholates very much,would you like to share your chocholates with me?
Farida
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46
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Cimahi, Jawa Barat, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 44 - 55
I want a better life in my second marriage
I am a widowed with 3 kids, after my late husband die, I had so many hard times, But I have to strugle because i know that God has a beautiful plan for me, and now I need a men who can accompany me, who fear God, kind heart and stable economy. I wa
Shree
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Bekasi, Jawa Barat, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 37 - 60
Friendly, easygoing, caring, loyal, understanding
I am single, i love gardening or doing outdoor thing, watching movie, listening the music and i am easygoing person, i love travel to the new places. If i love someone already i can be loyal to that person and be little naughty. If you to know more about me let’s chat.
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